Hotspot Articles: Christian Dating Tips

Navigating through the dating scene as a believer can be easier said than done. This articles will help you find your way.


Free Christian Dating Site for 2 Weeks

Free Christian Dating Site for 2 Weeks

It can be difficult to find other Christian singles to date. Thankfully, Christian dating sites can change that. Welcome to the most integrity based site on the internet for believers wanting to connect! Plus we offer two weeks free!       Sign-In   Successes   Prices   CM Reviews  Cities  ... Read More »


Porn Statistics & Addiction Symptoms | Read Today!

Porn Statistics & Addiction Symptoms | Read Today!

With the onslaught of the internet and then mobile phones, we now have access to pornography 24 hours a day right in our pocket. The three "A's" of addiction are accessibility, affordability, and anonymity and porn provides all three. Consequently, porn addiction has exploded over the last decade and has left in its wake a plethora of broken... Read More »


BBpeoplemeet Review | Check it Out!

BBpeoplemeet Review | Check it Out!

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

  The internet is booming with dating sites for all types of people. Recently, there's been a shift from massive one size fits all sites to more customized sites for niche audiences. One example of this is bbpeoplemeet. This site is a great example of a platform designed for a certain segment of the population, the big and beautiful. Other... Read More »


Brokenness | Top 16 Ways It May Be Impacting Your Relationship

Brokenness | Top 16 Ways It May Be Impacting Your Relationship

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D. & Michelle Graham

What is brokenness? Brokenness is the flawed condition of humanity that creates a propensity  for people to hurt themselves and others.     One of the facts of being human is that we don’t always get things right. Romans 3:10 says that not one of us is righteous. That’s a pretty heavy accusation, but the sad part... Read More »


Singleness | Top 7 Reasons You May Be Single

Singleness | Top 7 Reasons You May Be Single

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D. & Michelle Graham

What is singleness? Singleness refers to not being in a romantic relationship despite the person’s desire and multiple attempts at being in one.   The women say why don't I have a boyfriend and there aren’t any good men left and the men are wondering why don't I have a girlfriend and where have all the great ladies gone. Read More »


ChristianCrush Social Media

ChristianCrush Social Media

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

ChristianCrush is on social media. I hope you enjoy our daily posts and they bring you inspiration. I hand select the photos myself based on the images and backgrounds I find pleasant and engaging. I'm also responsible for the messages on each graphic and they are usually insights from working with couples in my private practice or reflections from... Read More »


Let Jesus Be Your Gate Keeper

Let Jesus Be Your Gate Keeper

by Alia Fisher

You adore him or her!  What a gift from God that special someone is!  God's purpose for relationships is clear: He wants to extend His love for us in tangible ways through the hands and feet, the words of affection, and the companionship of others.   Genesis 2:18 reads: The Lord God said, "It is NOT GOOD for the man to be... Read More »


Christian Soulmate | Top 20 Things To Look For!

Christian Soulmate | Top 20 Things To Look For!

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D. and Michelle Graham

What is a Christian soulmate? A Christian soulmate is somebody you feel has been destined by God to be your life partner. They have the ideal traits that make you feel highly compatible in body, soul, and spirit.   No one has ever said that dating should get more difficult. In fact, the one thing everyone wants to find is a way to make it... Read More »


Three Points To Consider When Deciding Who To Date/Marry

Three Points To Consider When Deciding Who To Date/Marry

by ChristianCrush Team

When you marry someone with an opposite personality, you set yourself up for a lot of learning opportunities. Someone who is more similar to you will probably help you grow, but marrying an opposite forces you to change your entire life.   Relationship trends have always been evolving. Right after the Revolutionary war it became popular to... Read More »


Cultivate Healthy Romantic Relationships-

Cultivate Healthy Romantic Relationships-

by ChristianCrush Team

There’s no question that Facebook is addictive, and now just about anyone can have an account on it. One of the most popular ways to use this social media site is to post very personal thoughts about your love life. In fact, it’s often strange to not see a couple boast online about their happiness offline. Studies show that many couples... Read More »


Love and Respect | We all crave it!

Love and Respect | We all crave it!

by ChristianCrush Team

Equality is a huge subject in politics today. All we ever seem to talk about is whether we are all equal or not, whether it’s in the workforce, at school, in social circles, or in a marriage. One of the simplest ways to gain equal footing in a marriage is to earn some kind of college degree. New studies show that equality might not be such a... Read More »


Two Reasons Your Family and Friends Should be a Part of Your Dating Life

Two Reasons Your Family and Friends Should be a Part of Your Dating Life

by ChristianCrush Team

The game of online dating has changed tenfold in the past decade. When the first matchmaking sites appeared, they were primarily visited by a few geeky people who happened to know how to use the Internet. And now, over half of all singles profess that they have used an online dating site at one time or another. Today, one of the most talked-about... Read More »


Three Qualities To Cultivate

Three Qualities To Cultivate

by ChristianCrush Team

Far, far away, in a distant land called My Middle School Experience, I had a bubbly, happy teacher fresh from a summer wedding. Of course my class absolutely had to know how our teacher met her husband. The answer surprised us so much that to this day I can feel the shock in the room.   “I prayed over a list,” she said.  A... Read More »


Christian Marriage Infographics

Christian Marriage Infographics

by ChristianCrush Team

Marriage traditions tell us that when two people are married, they become one unit. It might seem strange that, not only do two individuals become one flesh, they also tend to experience the same things as other married couples do. Scientists see that there is a pattern in almost every marriage, and once you recognize the pattern in your own... Read More »


Three Biblical Ways to Dispel Cultural Love Myths

Three Biblical Ways to Dispel Cultural Love Myths

by ChristianCrush Team

Hollywood lied to us. Romance doesn’t solve all of our problems, and fighting doesn’t mean that you are doomed as a couple. In fact, the whole world has lied to us about the things that do and don’t work in relationships – Hollywood just happened to provide the bandwagon.   A lot of what we consider to be a natural... Read More »


Dating Confusion and Paths to Clarity

Dating Confusion and Paths to Clarity

by ChristianCrush Team

No one seems to know what is going on. Are they on a date, or are they just friends? Modern dating simply feels more complicated than it used to. We have become used to ambiguity and what’s worse, we aren’t sure we would prefer the alternative.   The myth of true love was long ago debunked by an overarching fear of getting hurt... Read More »


God's View Instead Of Our Culture's View On The Ideal Partner

God's View Instead Of Our Culture's View On The Ideal Partner

by ChristianCrush Team

Scientists have finally discovered why Channing Tatum movies are in such high demand. Ask any woman on the street to describe the looks of her perfect man, and you will probably receive an answer that applies to almost all women. Facial symmetry, strong jawlines, and wide, muscular shoulders often make the top of the list. It’s not because... Read More »


Helping You Find Mr./Ms. Right

Helping You Find Mr./Ms. Right

by ChristianCrush Team

Sometimes love feels like Hide ‘N’ Seek. Mr. Right is hiding, and the single girl is doing all of the seeking. The problem is that there aren’t only two people involved in the game – there are lots of Mr. Wrongs thrown into the mix. And after two years or ten years of dating the wrong people, it can feel like Mr. Right is... Read More »


Christian Dating Boundaries | The Top Four!

Christian Dating Boundaries | The Top Four!

by ChristianCrush Team

The world of dating is full of uncertainty. “Should I reply to this message?” “Should I flirt back?” “Should I try a second date?” Sometimes we find ourselves swept away in the possibility of a new relationship, only to find ourselves dropped out the other end of a dump truck. If there’s anything that could... Read More »


Are People Happier Being Married or Single?

Are People Happier Being Married or Single?

by ChristianCrush Team

While researching a blog last week, I ran across a Yahoo Answers thread titled “What’s it like to live in Colorado?” Being a native myself, I had to check it out; I was rewarded with gems such as “So how many days out of the year do you ride sled dogs to school?” or “At what elevation do elk turn into... Read More »


Three Reasons Men and Women Should be Friends

Three Reasons Men and Women Should be Friends

by ChristianCrush Team

On the night I first saw the movie When Harry Met Sally, I felt like I was watching an alternate version of my life. You know, if I’d been born in the late 50s, was blonde, and had gone to live in New York City. I remember when Harry tells Sally that men and women can’t be friends, I turned to my friend and whispered, “Oh, my... Read More »


Three Steps to Avoiding Codependency

Three Steps to Avoiding Codependency

by ChristianCrush Team

Empowering yourself to be assertive might be a good way to give you a healthier relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse. It’s normal to have a balance of power, and it’s healthy for both people to feel as though they have control over some part of the relationship. Without empowerment, some people fall into dangerous... Read More »


Top Four Ways To Survive Singleness

Top Four Ways To Survive Singleness

by Michelle Graham

Modern culture is determined to make a significant other the most important thing that happens to a person in life. Religious circles aren’t the only ones that put so much emphasis on marriage, and the secular world is at a loss on what to do with the growing number of singles.   One of the problems, according to DiDonato, is that... Read More »


Christian Sex | Top 6 Steps to Fulfillment Within Marriage!

Christian Sex | Top 6 Steps to Fulfillment Within Marriage!

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

What is Christian sex? Christian sex is the union between a husband and wife within marriage. It entails the complete consummation of body, soul, and spirit as the couple fully becomes one.   Attend the Best Christian Marriage Retreat....Learn More!   Money and sex tend to be the top two areas for marital strife. Of the two, sexual... Read More »


Three Ways To Know You Are Ready For A First Date

Three Ways To Know You Are Ready For A First Date

by Michelle Graham

Just as not everyone should be allowed to drive semi-trucks or be left alone with glitter, not every person out there is ready for a first date.  Call it responsibility, maturity, or just plain experience – you might need more of something to actually be ready for that initial meet-up. To figure out whether you are ready or not, start by... Read More »


Top Five Date Ideas

Top Five Date Ideas

by ChristianCrush team

When the words “first date” enter your mind, are they accompanied by the soundtrack from Jaws?  It can feel like every good date idea has been used up.  The classic dinner-and-a-movie gets constant ridicule for being overused and even going out to coffee is seen as passé. But if we’re supposed to “live in... Read More »


The Biggest Mistake Women Can Make While Dating

The Biggest Mistake Women Can Make While Dating

by Brenda Rodgers

I sat in my apartment all day one Sunday afternoon waiting for a guy to pick me up for our first date. He called me around noon to tell me his golf tee-time was pushed back and he'd be late. Then he called me again to tell me the golf course was further away from me than he thought, so it would take him even longer to get there. Then he called a... Read More »


How Good Are You at Waiting?

How Good Are You at Waiting?

by Michelle Graham

Timing is one of my least favorite things in the entire world, mostly because it is the scapegoat for everything that goes wrong.  When a first date bombs, it just wasn’t the right timing.  If a potential employer sends me a cordial form refusal letter, it was simply bad timing.  This nebulous idea of “timing” is... Read More »


Handling Rejection God's Way

Handling Rejection God's Way

by Jill Monaco

Rejection is inevitable. It happens to all of us at some point in our lives. When we get rejected we can’t help but stop and ask ourselves some questions. The first question we usually ask is ”Why?” Then come the thoughts that we rehearse over and over again. We replay that moment of rejection, wishing we’d asked more... Read More »


Preparing for Love

Preparing for Love

by Michelle Graham and Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

I don’t know when it happened, but sometime between my college years and now, the world around me became hostile.  It took me mere moments to feel it happen, but it took years to decipher the cause.  In fact, it happens to many people all around me, and none of them understand it, either.  As a group we are ignored, laughed at,... Read More »


Finding Your Soul Mate

Finding Your Soul Mate

by Ron Mumford

How do I find my soul mate? You don't! You receive your soul mate from God. He describes Himself as, I AM LOVE. All love, all soul mates come from Him and in His timing. We must all prepare ourselves to receive the Gold Medal of all relationships—a Soul Mate. That wonderful, deep, pure, loving relationship from the greatest Matchmaker of all,... Read More »


5 Ideas for Avoiding an Awkward First Date

5 Ideas for Avoiding an Awkward First Date

by SingleRoots

We’ve had our fair share of bad dates. So many, in fact, our friends have often told us they would pay our online dating membership just to hear our stories. So when it comes to dating, who better to advise you than those of us who know it well.   1. Don’t talk politics: Sure, at some point you’ll need to know if your date... Read More »


Courting vs Dating

Courting vs Dating

// What is the difference between courting and dating? Courting is pursuing another Christian to become equally yoked and preserving sex for marriage alone. In contrast, those dating don’t intentionally seek out another Christian and often have sex before marriage.     Try ChristianCrush For Free....Learn More!   There... Read More »


Christian Matchmaker | Best 2017 Guide On Becoming One For Yourself!

Christian Matchmaker | Best 2017 Guide On Becoming One For Yourself!

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

What is a Christian Matchmaker? A Christian matchmaker is a relationship expert trained in helping Christian singles make a romantic connection. They usually do thorough background checks to ensure the couple will be highly compatible.   God doesn’t want us to be alone. It might be hard to believe if you’ve been single for a... Read More »


The Destruction of Porn

The Destruction of Porn

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Our culture is becoming more morally bankrupt each year. Ethical standards continue to decrease as previously considered inappropriate material is being allowed through music, advertisements, TV shows, movies, etc.  People who oppose this “loosening” of moral standards are often labeled negative terms, such as prude, rigid,... Read More »


Spiritual Intimacy | You Are Wired For It

Spiritual Intimacy | You Are Wired For It

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Cultivating spiritual intimacy should be a major focus for Christian couples. The Bible tells us to continually focus on Christ and His lordship in our life. Therefore, we must pursue Him within all of our relationships, especially our romantic ones.   One of the most important steps in cultivating spiritual intimacy is dating and marrying... Read More »


Similarity and Dating

Similarity and Dating

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Dating occurs at all ages and stages of adult life. The high school and college years are typically periods of intense dating, often leading to serious relationships for the first time. Others may unexpectedly re-enter the dating scene following a divorce from an unfaithful or abusive spouse. Still others may re-enter the dating scene after the... Read More »


Christian Dating Tips and Early Childhood

Christian Dating Tips and Early Childhood

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Among all types of Christian dating tips, one of the most important is being cognizant of the monumental role of one's childhood. The type of relationships we had with our parents, siblings, friends, neighbors, teachers, coaches, pastors and important others all played a role in our upbringing. In addition, the type of neighborhood we grew up in,... Read More »


Sexual Boundaries

Sexual Boundaries

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

There are many topics to consider when dating. Of these, one of the most important is sexual boundaries. It is no surprise that we live in a very sex-saturated society. Sexual images, content, and innuendos are seen and heard constantly in music, commercials, magazines, sit-coms, billboards, newspaper ads, movies, internet sites, books, etc. Sex is... Read More »


Humility and Dating

Humility and Dating

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Humility is hard to find. The media displays sports figures, political leaders, and celebrities all soaking in their success and fame. In addition, we live in a "dog eat dog" society that promotes selfishness and ruthless ambition. Not surprisingly, we frequently see public figures playing the "blame game" in order to protect their sacred images. Read More »


Christian Dating and Values

Christian Dating and Values

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

It is important to consider many qualities when entering the romantic scene. One important category is Christian dating values. The clearer your values are, the easier it will be for you to filter through your dating options. As the saying goes, "if you don't know what you stand for, you'll fall for anything." It often takes time and experience to... Read More »


Adult Attachment and Romantic Relationships

Adult Attachment and Romantic Relationships

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D.

Adult attachment can significantly impact your experiences in romantic relationships. Attachment style refers to how comfortable and familiar one is with building intimacy in relationships. Believe it or not, this capacity begins in infancy. The first relationships we experience in life are with our caregivers; therefore, the quality of them will... Read More »