Finding Your Soul Mate

Finding Your Soul Mate

by Ron Mumford

How do I find my soul mate? You don't! You receive your soul mate from God. He describes Himself as, I AM LOVE. All love, all soul mates come from Him and in His timing. We must all prepare ourselves to receive the Gold Medal of all relationships—a Soul Mate. That wonderful, deep, pure, loving relationship from the greatest Matchmaker of all, ending in a marriage that will last until eternity begins.


Receiving your Soul Mate is a promise from Jesus Christ Himself. He said in Matthew 6:33, "Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness; and all of these things will be added unto you." And "all" includes a soul mate or "help mate" as described in the Bible. The word "soul mate" didn't even hit Webster's Dictionary until 1822.


Now we all love the last part of this verse but...there are four things for us to do—Seek, First, the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness before we get the last part "added unto us."  The book, Finding Your Soul Mate, God's Way, gives each of us a step-by-step path to our greatest romance story. Why? Because it's from God's Word. He's very specific on the subject of romance and love stories.


Your Way? Societies' Way? The Media's Way? Or, God's Way


I'm absolutely blown away on how Hollywood presents love stories. It's a quick 3-act sequence that goes something like this: the hero and heroine go to the same party and discover each other; their eyes meet and they kiss; then, in short order, the third scene is the bedroom scene. Then the three "C's" of writing begin—Conflict! Conflict! Conflict!  The shame, the guilt when he or she doesn't "call you," and the anger of being used...Just another notch on the bed post. Like it or not, you have been conquered.


I met a very attractive, recently divorced professional lady named Shannon. In a brief conversation with her about soul mates, she said, "I know exactly what went wrong in my marriage. I can correct it next time. I don't want to do things God's Way, He takes too long. I'll do things my way!"  Good luck, Shannon. You just reached up and slapped God in the face.  Being the gentleman that He is, God did give us free will and free choice. Watch out for the players!


I'll give you a little hint into finding your soul mate. Become an Ephesians 5 man and a Proverbs 31 woman. The more we strive towards honoring Christ in our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, the more we'll radiate His love, character, and essense. The more we emulate Him, the more favor we'll find both with God and with man. So, invest fully into your walk with God and let Him guide you to your ultimate connection with another human being.


I hope you will visit and check out our book on If you have any questions, email me at Have a Very Merry CHRISTmas, y'all...Ron Mumford, Dallas, Texas. Thanks, Wyatt for the opportunity to be a guest blogger on your wonderful site.

How could you become more of an Ephesians 5 man or Proverbs 31 woman?

Comments (14)

Happy New Year and may your dating sight be fruitful, Christian Crush, 2014!
By on January 1, 2014 @ 9:19pm MT 51

Dr. WyattThank you so much...I really appreciate all of your prayers and support!
By Dr. Wyatt on January 2, 2014 @ 6:46am MT

"Soul mates" or "the one" don't exist. God is your "one". You should be searching for your #2. Love is a choice. You choose who you're going to love, who you're going to invest your time into, etc. You can "fall" into "love" with a million different people and fall out of "love" with them just as easily. You have to make a choice. You have to make a decision to stay with a person for the rest of your life and make it happen. You're not going to find one magical person that you were destined to be with and have a perfect marriage because people are not perfect. You have to work hard everyday to be a good spouse and work on your marriage everyday in order to make it last for the rest of your life.
By on December 29, 2013 @ 8:59pm MT 51

Dr. WyattGreat feedback..yes..for love to really last it must be viewed as a decision and not a feeling because all marriages go through different seasons.
By Dr. Wyatt on December 29, 2013 @ 9:13pm MT

Amen. For me I have found that being respectful of another person's walk helps me also as it may be too grand of a step in maturity. Following the word with dating really helps protect us when we are walking our walks. Great article. Merry Christmas and Happy New year. God Bless& hugs:)
By on December 29, 2013 @ 10:39am MT 51

Dr. WyattThank you Compassion2... yes respecting each other's walk and applying the Word to our dating lives is essential.
By Dr. Wyatt on December 29, 2013 @ 6:26pm MT

I LOVE THIS and that is why I am in no hurry to find a soul mate... God first always,,,, heck he has such a much better plan than I can imagine......and it is truly fun to serve him and put him first always :)
By on December 26, 2013 @ 6:58pm MT 51

Dr. WyattThanks Klm135...yes..first and foremost we must rest in God's presence and connect with and glorify Him.
By Dr. Wyatt on December 26, 2013 @ 7:07pm MT

Thank you for reminding me to be the woman that God wants me to be first! God Bless!!!
By on December 22, 2013 @ 8:10am MT 51

Dr. WyattYou're welcome trmac719...yes...we first must focus on Christ and honoring Him before all else.
By Dr. Wyatt on December 22, 2013 @ 8:29am MT

God bless you and Merry Christmas! Thank you for inspiring me!
By on December 22, 2013 @ 5:33am MT 51

Dr. WyattThank you Janiceyes...Merry Christmas to you as well!
By Dr. Wyatt on December 22, 2013 @ 8:04am MT

I am depending on the lord to help me find someone I can trust and loves the lord as I do
By on December 21, 2013 @ 3:47pm MT 51
Dr. WyattAmen Bessie....that's all you can do!
By Dr. Wyatt on December 22, 2013 @ 8:03am MT

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